Fellow Intimates,

When Last Did You Surprise Your Spouse in Bed?

If you know me well, you know I always say this:

Even kids get tired of their favorite toy.

And that’s exactly why your bedroom may be feeling… predictable. ❌❌❌

You’ve likely fallen into a routine. A schedule. A system.

But I’m here to tell you: there is real power in spontaneity.

Even white, the cleanest, purest color can start to feel dull without a splash of gold, a pop of red, or a touch of texture. You accessorize your clothes, your home, your meals ,why not your intimacy?

No, I won’t go with the cliché “variety is the spice of life.

But the truth remains: when you stay in one setting too long, the excitement begins to fade. What was once thrilling becomes tiring. What was once spice becomes silence.

So here’s what I’m saying, try one act of beautiful spontaneity this week. Just one.

Need ideas? Here are a few to spark you:

• Rearrange your bedroom or change the lighting.

• Initiate sex at an unexpected time or place.

• Try roleplay, think police officer, nurse, teacher.

• Add a blindfold or soft restraints for a trust-building experience.

• Surprise your partner with a handwritten intimacy card.

You don’t have to do all. Just one. That’s enough to shift the energy.

And if you feel unsure where to start, or what fits your personality or preference, that’s why I always recommend booking a one-on-one session. But if you’re on a budget this month, here’s your best next step:

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I’m praying that May brings you a renewed passion, clarity, and connection.

Don’t be a stranger, hit reply or send us a message to share how it’s going. I love hearing from you.

Always rooting for you,

Jessica Sampson

Your Favorite Sex Coach & Intimacy Booster